I guess it makes me sad that someone could be so selfish that they are willing to push away a child just so she could have a man all to herself.
Yes it does appear selfish, and I am the first to admit I am emotionally confused and hurting at the moment. However when his baggage does eventually show up, he will be a man, not a child. I DON'T hurt children, I never will, and I think that is something a lot of people misinterpreted.
P.S. Keep up with those ideas for community rules! ;)